Friday, January 23, 2015

Colin Le Rougetel (1923-2015)



Colin Maxwell Helier Le Rougetel died on January 22nd, just one day shy of his 89th birthday. His death is a blessed release from an earth- and body-bound life that had become a burden to his spirit. He leaves to cherish his memory his beloved wife Anne, his children, Katy (Guy), Amanda (Val), and Charles (Lisa). His grand-sons Max and Sam held a special place in his heart; he loved being their Canada Grand-pa.

Colin was a man who loved and was loved. He embraced life and took on the challenges it brought. Born in Peking (Beijing) because his father was stationed there by the British Foreign Service, Colin was trained to enter the British Navy at Dartmouth Naval College; he served during the tail end of WWII. He left the Navy to attend university, but he met Anne and, like a bolt of lightening (as he always told the story), that was it; he was in life-long love. He left the British Navy, because he wanted to support his wife and the children whom he very much wanted.

Anne and Colin were married in London, England, in 1951, and moved across the Atlantic in 1953 to embark on a new life in Canada; it was a move that served his family well. His work in sales & marketing took him back and forth between Canada and Europe over the next two-plus decades, and his children gained tremendously from the experience: Katy was born in Montreal, Amanda in Toronto, and Charles in Bad-Homburg, Germany. Languages were learned, friends were made, and cultures were explored; we maybe had gaps in our formal education, but we had no shortage of life-lived lessons that formed us and prepared us for our own lives of challenge and change. Colin and Anne’s home was always the place their children’s’ friends congregated for conversation and fun.

Over the last 13 months of his life, Colin was faced with increasing physical difficulties; his body was giving out but his mind remained active. Conversations with his family were had by phone right up to the very evening of the night of his death.

The family thanks everyone who has helped along the way. It takes a village to care for a loved one, and we had a village, indeed. Carmelita, Robert and Brad from Baycrest were wonderful. Ann, Jennifer and Doug Tweddle; Barbara Chan; and Al and Jane Dunbar are family in spirit and in deed. No one could ask for better and truer friends than these.

A celebration of life is being planned in Edmonton for early February. 

Sunday, January 18, 2015

Family update

Well. The New Year has started with sweeping change for the Le Rougetel family.

Colin has been moved from the small regional hospital he had been in since mid-November to a downtown long-term care home. He has been there just over two weeks and it's hard to say he's happy. His physical capacity has diminished and his dependency on the care staff has increased: Who would be happy about that? He struggles on, but often says he would be happier "on the other side". Please hold him in your hearts and wish him God speed on his journey. It is what he says he wants.

The same week that Colin was moved into downtown Edmonton, Anne received a call from the seniors residence complex saying that a suite had become available and it was hers if she wanted it. It took her only about 24 hours, much discussion and an on-site tour to know that it was perfect and perfect timing, too.

Since that time, we have all been poring over the suite layout plans and making trips to IKEA and discussing furniture options. Anne takes possession Feb. 1. I (Amanda) am going out for a long weekend at the end of January and then Val and I will go for about nine days mid-February to help sort out the family home and get Anne ready for the move into Rosedale. All very exciting.

To boot, the family home is now on the market (view listing) and viewings have already begun this weekend. Take a tour and pass it along to anyone who's interested in a good house (that needs updating) in a great neighbourhood (just south of West Edmonton Mall).

Keep your fingers crossed that all continues to move along. Life cycles through the various phases it offers us, and we must simply try to keep up.

I'll keep you posted on news as it develops.
Love,
Amanda

PS: Val is doing well, and I am getting into the swing of the winter term. We are the least of the news these days!

Tuesday, January 6, 2015

Christmas 2014 at the cottage

Lake Winnipeg was well and truly frozen, and gorgeous in the (very) crisp winter sunshine. 

My version of a Christmas tree. 
Val got out and about every day, first to fill the bird feeders on our our lot, and then off somewhere for a walk. 

Inside was warm and cozy; our friend Yvonne (right) came up on New Year's Day for a couple of nights. 

Holly is not her most active in the dead of winter! 

Before I arrived, Val and Yvonne went up with Yvonne's dog, Bella, and our friends' dog, Kiwi; they all opened up the cottage and warmed it up from the winter cold. It took a full 24 hours to get the warmth into the woodwork! 

We went through quite a lot of wood in our little Jotl stove. Holly loves the heat. 
I loved walking in the cold - not for hugely long, but a daily walk nonetheless: snowpants, down jacket, wool socks, winter boots, hats and mitts - no problem! 

Nice rosy cheeks!